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Adding to the list

Yesterday I started to form my dating checklist, or questionnaire if you will, and the list seemed grim in nature. Why would one have to ask those questions of another? Well I got news for ya’ that was just because of one person. Yes all of that and more is totally for one person. I have been dealing with this person since thanksgiving 2012 and it went from weird to worse. It wasn’t an on again off again kind of relationship but it often seemed that way. I remember one day in January or February I made a statement along the lines of “……..not like we’re boyfriend/girlfriend…….” this sent him into a rant because apparently, to him, we were. I didn’t have the heart to break his because he often said “please don’t rip my heart out” and although it wasn’t my thing, I wasn’t going to be the cause of someones’ demise. On graduation night, he said he wanted to take me out for drinks (I know enabling and alcoholic is horrible but he’d been drinking all day and at least I could see that he got home safe). He couldn’t decide were to go and because I don’t go out , I didn’t care (I knew I’d have less than a beer). After we finally found a place, half a beer later, he no longer felt comfortable there and so we left. we bickered about where to go because I had no answers so finally I dropped him off. I told him this was supposed to be a happy day for me (I just graduated college!) and I just didn’t want to fight. After a slam of my truck door and a mumbled dig he was off. I text him a day or two later and I’m like “what are we doing” (in the metaphorical sense) and apparently we were no long boyfriend/girlfriend. That was a relief and I changed my status on Facebook. We haven’t been in the same space since. I have text him and he is still doing crappy but hopefully he decides to make the move closer to family. I wish him luck and sanity.

Today I was supposed to go out to dinner with another guy I had no interest in dating (I think I have a problem). This one I met sometime in December. I stopped responding to his text for two months and he text EVERYDAY. I thought at first it was cute, persistent but it quickly changed to stalker. He often comments on my statuses and pictures and contacts me via every outlet imaginable. I finally agreed to go to dinner until I felt something was amiss. I explained to him that I was not feeling the date and it was me not him. Then there was this:

006With comment about being done and stuff.. Look I canceled a date with you that I have been avoiding for a half a year, I didn’t tell you I hate you and lets break up. Let’s face it I should have not caused that reaction. But alas, he says that “if you change your mind I would like to take you to dinner. I don’t care when or how.. but I’ll let you make that call…” Oh boy

So now with two down (kind of) It’s time to “get my grind on” (work)

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