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Ok it’s official……… I give up!

It my personal preference that I only date/talk to guys who don’t use the “yo ma” thing. I hate it because I am NOT your MA. Turns out that this phase comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors in men. I have a history of dating men of caucasian decent. Why do I find that most of the guys that I come across are solely interested in me because I am black? I am not your fantasy girl, I’m not a one night-er, and I am completely fed up with all of the nonsense.

I have been talking to a guy, a white guy. He seemed kind of cool. Very goal oriented, going for his bachelors degree, civil service, military history; totally my type! Tonight he asks why I was intrigued by him and so I told him, it included his attractiveness in general , his personality kind of, and the ability to hold my attention  (which is hard to do). I ask him in return “why” his response, and I quote; “maybe being black excites me”. I mean really, are you kidding me? I waited until I had calmed enough to respond because I knew my first thoughts would have not gone over well, although I don’t know why I cared not to hurt HIS feelings, I responded that what he said sucked and that I could not be someones cross fantasy. To which he said how I did intrigue him other than that and that he’d been with black girls before. There is something fundamentally wrong with that saying, it’s like saying, “no, I’m not racist, see I have a black friend!”

People are just people, yes there are different races but people are ultimately just PEOPLE!

I give up on the hunt. If it happens it will but I will no longer feel less than.

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